You are so right on regarding how I ignored my husband when he said something. (Its embarrassing that you could get that from that rant) I would dismiss a lot of what he said especially once we had kids cause what the heck did he know about that. UGH!! I have learned that I communicate by demanding that you hear me, while my husband just says how he feels and doesnt shout it at me but I still need to listen. I guess I only listen when people shout!
Its true 2 kids + 2 careers = 2 much
H & I both needed more time to mountain bike & pursue our hobbies & relax away from the kids. I thought spending $ on a babysitting was friviolious we were saving for a house. Hobbies cost too much. I thought asking family for help was weak. That good parents could handle it. That we were tough and everyone else has 2 kids + 2 careers - we didnt need help. I WAS SO WRONG:(
Thks for reading my rant so glad I am working to get better
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
