I would have to agree with Bond regarding the 2nd child. I know it is important to you, and I'm not trying to minimize that, but the state of your marriage needs to be stronger.
I know your not stupid, and I am sure you have thought about all of this.
I'm happy to hear that things are improving for you two. I think it's a good thing that you are taking your time to move back home. I don't think you'll ever regret waiting, but you might regret moving too soon.
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