Did you and your H ever discuss the fact that he needed to do the bike thing every now and then because it was important to him? Maybe he thought you just discarded what he was passionate about. I get it that you wanted him to always be there since you had two kids that were both of your choices. But it sounded like it's what YOU wanted. Something like that could have always been compromised. I mean I'm sure there are things that you did to relieve stress and maybe he didn't say anything about that because he felt you might argue with him about the two not being the same.
The woman gives your H the kids furniture so your kids can have something to play with. It's not her fault you two are where you are.
"Anyway I really just kind of ignored her comments and figured I didnt have to be friends with her"
Just asking, but is that how your attitude was towards your H? Maybe he tried to tell you things, but you ignored them.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
