I, too, am so sorry for your loss, and these difficult few days.
You know, sharing this with your XH may very well set you back a bit -- it did me -- but not for long. You will bounce right back, but with the knowledge that you did the right thing to give him the choice. No regrets -- that is always huge for me, and I'm happy to weather a small setback for that kind kind of peace.
((Antonia))
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man