So I am a relatively newcomer here, but I must agree, Why? What purpose is served in moving out before you are ready?
The in-laws can stay in a hotel.
The W can stay in a hotel or sleep on the couch.
Don’t be mean or vindictive about it. Pitching a tent in the yard comes to mind.
Stand your ground. Be firm; be fair, your definition of fair. Be in control of yourself.
This is not my experience as our children are grown. IMO you both need to be present when your children learn about it.
Be prepared for fallout days, weeks, and in the years to come. My twenty something nieces are still dealing occasionally twenty years after their parents announce the D to them.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
