too much time and distance

[any chance?]

Thanks 2step:
I cannot yet tell if my W wants to stay in contact with me or not. I just know that she is hyper focused on the D, and needs to do it and put it behind her before she can even contemplate what is in front of her. The D is simply a box that needs to be checked.

How has your contact with your W evolved through time? I want to think that taking the high road and offering lots of support for my W during her ongoing depression and fog was a good, compassionate thing to do. Others tell me I have been an enabler. I don't know what to think, I just know that it is what it is.