And here is where I was shocked: She said she had been feeling good about "us" the past couple of weeks, until I went and did this.
OK, let me disclaim that I can in no way read minds... but I will say this...
The best to be gleaned from that comment is your W was sticking the knife into you... maybe it was conscious, maybe it was unconscious, but she knows you still want her back and so she would know that statement would hurt you... because hey... in HER mind, you stuck her with the knife first...
But if she really wasn't trying to hurt you with that statement, then the following alternative is possible...
IF she has been softening, then this one incident will be remembered, but it won't be a deal breaker...
Keep repeating to yourself:
Believe none of what they say and only 50% of what they do...
She SAYS she's been softening... what are the ACTIONS that back up that statement, that were overt and observable by you?
