I want to get your opinion, or anyone else who drops in, because your sitch and mine are pretty close. My H isn't spending enough time with the kids, and they are feeling it. For Example he came over last night for Trick or treating but spent no time with the kids just chatting with neighbors and tonight is his night to see the kids but told them since he came over last night that tonight he has stuff to do. S7 asked what and H tells him laundry.... Laundry... Because the kids were at his house so late on Sunday, 4:30, he couldn't do his laundry.
It took everything I had not to punch him in the face. I can't decide if I should sit down with him and talk about it or is it even worth my time, he doesn't listen to me anyway. I don't care if he doesn't want to see me, I am fine with that at this point I don't want to see him either but why is he like that with the boys? They didn't do anything.
