Hey, girl, ot has it right on with all he said. And I agree; take everything you want to have, because if you decide later you want something, he won't want to give it, and by then if they are using what you left, you won't want it anymore. Cooties, ya know.
And what he said about showing compassion for yourself, you do need to do that. You are a good person. I remember when I was eighteen older guys would come around to hang out with our group of friends. It's very intoxicating to have a grown up man pay that much attention to you. That is probably what got ow. And, like ot said, when she begins to mature, he will lose interest again. Maybe he is in arrested development at a certain age.
Good luck with your move tomorrow; don't let it get you down.
