new to this..

[learning2listen]

i have come to the conclusion that I have no idea who this man is..nothing about him seems to be like the man I married.

last night he showed up for trick or treating, said work was an ugly day. he lasted less then an hour, and left. Even d noticed he didnt stay long.

He is distant, cold, and always seems tired. he apparently cant handle anything other than work. he says nothing about us, yet is still wearing his wedding ring.

My question, does he really think I am just going to be here when and if he decides to come back? he seems to think this is the right thing to do, yet nothing is really being accomplished with it.

I am really confused. I dont know if it is just the fact my brain thinks differently or what, but it feels like i am missing a puzzle piece. He seems to not be afraid to hurt my feelings so why leave something out? he hasnt said anything hurtful for nearly a month, yet he hasnt really said much of anything.

any input would be greatly appreciated.