W is angrier after my 180's - time + consistency

[gunny]

hello 2
Sorry to read all this, but, I think potentially it is a positive that w has confided in her sister and your bil. If she is close to her s, perhaps she could be a moderating influence on your s behavior. Also, like you said, it is important that your s have someone to talk to, bounce things off, etc.In my sitch, I wanted my s to have as many people to talk to as possible, since I really believed that her decsion to leave was illogical.

I really like that she is acknowledging that you are making positive changes, but she is making it pretty clear that she wants you to move out. Maybe its time to do that. As someone here said, the good thing about that is that then you will get to see her pretty much on your schedule and you have time to prepare yourself. Living with a WAS on a daily basis is like going through torture, believe me, i just went through it.

Hang in there 2