Thanks CT. I've been working hard at the DB thing...
I started a new thread b/c this one is approaching 100 posts. I'd say there's been even more reaction to me doubling-down on DB. Not that I think anything has changed long-term view, but for me internally it has. And that's peace of mind if nothing else.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD