Thanks CT. I've been working hard at the DB thing...

I started a new thread b/c this one is approaching 100 posts. I'd say there's been even more reaction to me doubling-down on DB. Not that I think anything has changed long-term view, but for me internally it has. And that's peace of mind if nothing else.

My new thread


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD