Sometimes I feel like it's better to bite the bullet and finish up the divorce, so that the healing can begin and I can move on. The actions of my WAW are not the actions of someone who loves me, so I sometimes wonder why I shouldn't just move on.
If it wasn't for D8, I think I would be more proactive in finishing the divorce so that I can heal and GAL faster.
Sorry dont know your sitch well but i can definitely relate to what you said. It takes lot more effort to wait than to just 'get it over'.
As lot of folks here said, at the end of the day you will become stronger and i think that might be worth more than anything...
So stick to what you feel is right.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...