I may have had trouble explaining my point. I am not saying that we shouldn't try these techniques. I just sometimes feel like in my situation, and others on here, it seems clear at times the WAS is not interested in fixing themselves and it's not fair for them to keep us in limbo.
Sometimes I feel like it's better to bite the bullet and finish up the divorce, so that the healing can begin and I can move on. The actions of my WAW are not the actions of someone who loves me, so I sometimes wonder why I shouldn't just move on.
If it wasn't for D8, I think I would be more proactive in finishing the divorce so that I can heal and GAL faster.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
