"I've been messaging with a lady from Datehookup -- it's actually a better site than it sounds. This looks very promising except she never actually picks up the phone. It's all still messages. hmmm."
This woman is almost certainly cheating.
"The online thing is crazy. I had a good date with OKCupid lady, but she decided to date another guy instead before second date."
This woman is probably just not that into you.
"Finally, back on OKCupid I exchanged some very lengthy messages with a lady north of me about 25 minutes. She seems extremely intelligent and ... all of a sudden she drops her membership and it's a free site."