I myself am going through a rought time .My wife and i had problems early this year and she wanted a divorce ..I fought and fought and changed my bad habits but this just didnt seem to work , i moved out for 2 weeks till one day she called and admitted an affair she had that went to far ...i was crushed and still am ..we then worked on our marriage but was really hell and back that she has now opted for a divorce ...this is really crushing to me as i forgave and put my whole self back in to work on our problems ...the one prob is she still misses this person in all the good feelings and how this made her feel ..we have not divorced yet but sleeping in separate bedrooms now ...all i can say is you not alone my friend ...we can only rely on GOD to show us the way and not lay down ...
