Hi VC, thanks for the support and your kind words!!

Well, she basically killed herself to find an excuse to come around last night, I felt for her at one stage!!! haha

But when she did finally arrive she was impressed and really nice about it, my daughter gave her the full tour!!!

After she left, guess who called again!!!

I was in the bath when she called, its a lovely roll top!!!

She was talking to the kids, then asked to speak to me, my son came in and give me the phone, she said its a good job its not a camera phone!!!, I laughed and said she would be so lucky!!, we both laughed

We talked about the kids, etc, she said that I seemed happy, I said I was, and thanked her for leaving me!!, I said that I wouldn't be where I was personally until she left.

She laughed and said that it sounded bad, but totally understood, and was happy for me, said I was doing great, and she was always there for me, I thanked her.

We talked a bit more, then ended the call.

She called me again this morning 8.15am!!!
Just to see if the kids were ok, I said everything was fine, and again we talked about the kids again, all really really nice, just laughing together.

Its all really good for me, but I feel she wants more, not sure.

I was thinking of asking her if she wanted to go for a meal one night, but then thought why?, why risk spoiling everything thats going well, if she wants to go out, or do something, its for her to ask me.

But thanks for the support guys, I am getting there!!!
Not sure where that is yet!!!!