first, as to the cat who is acutely ill--yes it could be an obstruction and given how suddenly it came on, let's hope for that. I mean, it's painful BUT often fixable.
The cat with the tumor, doing reasonably well on meds, thank GOD for that. Some tumors are slow growing, so, maybe you have some time.
Last, on THIS issue, forget about the "rules" of DBing.
IF your h cares about the cat enough to want to come, then for sure you did the right thing contacting him.
Don't punish him with this NC when it comes to an animal (or child) that you both cared for.
If he doesn't show up, no loss, really...but you'll toughen up in some damn way, no doubt.
Sorry about that, and the cats.
Hang in there...
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
