Very sad. My L just called me to ask for a list of what I wanted. I said I did not want furniture, did'nt want to hurt her 401k, but the main thing is that I want reasonable and liberal visitation rights and to argue for the least amount of CS. The assessts will be 50/50 ie the house. He said this makes it all very easy. So he said you could be D 11/16, on your 1st court date and save money. WTF now???
Man, I'm so sorry to hear this Rick. Ultimately, you have to make the best decision for you. Is it worth saving they money? Do you feel that anything you would do to stretch this out would be fruitless effort? Only you know.