W is angrier after my 180's - time + consistency

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Sandi - No, my W has not threatened to commit suicide, but she does have a history of depression and this is what has me scared. She is emotional like I've never seen her before. Maybe it is all an act or her guilt is catching up with her. Either way, I'm very concerned for her welfare.

No, what makes things appear worse is her not getting her way. And, in case this is the first time you've been told....a woman, especially a WAW, can become hysterical if she thinks things aren't going the way she wants. It is not uncommon for a WAW to do exactly what your W did.

You may very well be right. I've just never known her to be manipulative like this.

Was she telling you all of this as you held her, comforting her? It seems her tears did the trick. And, btw, she probably wondered what took you so long to finally get upstairs to check on her. You probably won't believe that she was doing all of that on purpose.....and that she had you eating out of her hand after she finished.

Again, you are probably right on this point, but I would find it hard to believe.

25 - with regard to my previously stated concerns/doubts about DB'ng, I guess the effects as they are currently unfolding is something I don't think I was prepared for. I know I read about this stuff but until you see it and experience it first hand, it is really difficult to be fully prepared. If what I am seeing is a natural reaction to my DB techniques, then HOLY SH!T BATMAN!! What else do I have to look forward to?