You know, I used to hate those blanket statements, too, but now I believe them. This was for the best for me. I am better off. And I don't know if everything happens for a reason but my split with my H did.

It happened so that I could wake up and stop trudging along accepting less than I needed. I would have stayed in my M forever, but it was not good for me. Now, I am a person who can recognize what's authentic and right for me and actually enforce some healthy and sane boundaries.

I'm lonely and out of sorts at times but I'm more fully the person I'm supposed to be and I'm happier.

Me: 33, H: 32
M: 12 years T: 13 years
No kids
D-Day: 7/2009
Separated: 10/12/10
Future Unknown
GITS

"There's a fire starting in my heart, reaching a fever pitch and it's bringing me out the dark." - Adele