long day...packing up 18 yrs of marriage in one day and reliving all the memories was exhausting. I got there about an hour before my friends because I knew I was going to have a hard time going back in our room were he had been with her just the day before... I sat on that floor and just cried for 30 min. I think i handled it with class..i didnt trash the place and didnt break anything. actually cleanded up a little of the mess before I left, just the newspapers and stuff but i did do one thing a little spitefull.... I took the bed...LOL!!...im going to sell it but i just couldnt leave it there for him to have his fling with her in my stuff and that bed was so special to me, i loved it. He just got home about 20 min. ago and is livid that I took it, go figure. kinda puts a wrench in his game plan i supose... what did he think? that i would just leave stuff there for him to live happily ever after and be comfortable...its like he doesnt even realize what he has done.. have appt with lawyer tomorrow to retain her, he is threatening to be worse then my ex, which is pretty bad so im guessing this is going to get ugly. I never thought it would get to this, even if we did split up, we have always been civil and kind to each other. I just dont understand what is happening... I dont feel like i did anything wrong, we had talked a few weeks ago about what I could have and he said take what ever you want...so i did..
Me:48 H:42 M: 18 yrs. S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H D bomb: 9/9/11 OW confirmed 10/30/11 D papers filed 11/01/11 S15 S21(Special needs) S28
Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...
