Are there any success stories here?

[adinva]

Hi SadDad, your name makes me feel sad. I'm one of the ones who's been posting since this summer with no appreciable progress in my marriage, unless you count the fact that no legal steps have been taken.

Actually I think that's a pretty big one because I feel sure that if I screamed some of the things I wanted to scream at him, and poured out the anger and begged him to reconsider, he would probably have served me with papers by now.

But you ask why we would continue DBing if it doesn't seem to be working. In my opinion, what else is there to do? NOT improve myself? NOT hold my head up with dignity and a good attitude? NOT try to take my mind off the hurt by focusing on things that might help me be and feel more attractive? To me, DBing is a slam dunk.

I hope your day gets better. Take each one as it comes. Here's a hug (()) and a smile for you.