I would consider my situation a success story, although it's not a fairy tale ending, there are still issues, and parts of it are still very hard. There is lingering pain from infidelity for sure. The "success" part is that we're working on it together and keeping the family intact for the kids (and for ourselves). I do consider my divorce "busted".

The situations on the board are all different. Divorce Busting is extremely hard. Even if you do it perfectly there are no guarantees. In many ways it's the "least worst" approach because it's certainly not fun, but the other ways are pretty much guaranteed not to work.

--Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015