I don't think I'd take my H back even if he wanted to come back. He's done so much to hurt me and my kids, he doesn't deserve us.
There you go, DG. As much as it s*cks and as much as it hurts, there you go. You deserve a man who will love you, work with you to change the things that need fixing, not be afraid of change and trust in the love that you both share to get you through life. Anything less is unacceptable.
Your STBXH has shown you that he is not that man. And you are left with your youth, your vibrancy, your vitality and your heart.
Onwards and upwards. May we never settle for less than enough ever again.
Me: 33, H: 32 M: 12 years T: 13 years No kids D-Day: 7/2009 Separated: 10/12/10 Future Unknown GITS
"There's a fire starting in my heart, reaching a fever pitch and it's bringing me out the dark." - Adele