Are there any success stories here?

[NTX_Dad]

I'm feeling a little down today and visiting this board didn't help as usual.

I've been following about a dozen sitches on here since the beginning of the summer and all but one of them is still more or less in the same spot.

I am really curious if there are any success stories on here that I could read. I would like to read a few of those sitches to see what worked for them.

It seems like we are all trying good tactics and bettering ourselves, and I guess in the end that is really important in itself.

Some days I think about my sitch and many of the others on here and wonder why I keep trying the DB tactics. None of us deserve to be treated they way we've been treated. I suspect in most cases, the WAS won't even do what THEY need to do in order to resume a good, healthy marriage. I don't think my W will ever "get it" and realize she has things to work on... and if that's the case, do I really want her back? Life is too short to live in limbo like this for too long.

I'd love to hear of any success stories and/or thoughts.

Thanks!