Very sad. My L just called me to ask for a list of what I wanted. I said I did not want furniture, did'nt want to hurt her 401k, but the main thing is that I want reasonable and liberal visitation rights and to argue for the least amount of CS. The assessts will be 50/50 ie the house. He said this makes it all very easy. So he said you could be D 11/16, on your 1st court date and save money. WTF now???
WoW R! We're pretty much on the same timeline. I just got back from my L's office with some paperwork. Signed to answer the Dissolution summons, and W's L scheduled a pretrial for 11/3. Nothing like tryin to fast track this thing. My L says this could be over 11/3 if I choose. L and I came up with putting in a 60 days before I have to leave. Gives me time to tie up some loose ends and more importantly inform the kids. Time is no longer on my side....
Me:38 W:35 T:13 M:10 (3/15/01) SD:12 D:9 S:4 Need time to think: 7/19/11 D Bomb Dropped: 8/26/11 W serves me D papers: 9/6/11 Officially served 9/30/11