What do I do next?

[luvhurts49]

Thank you Accuray, you're like a ray of freakin sunshine. One on the problems that I have is I need to be reassured and "talked up" in order to feel better sometimes and I greatly appreciate everybody here being so friendly and helpful.

I know there isn't anything I can do to change her mind, but it goes against my nature to just "sit on my hands" as it were. I am trying to make changes in myself as I see that they are not only not desirable, but I also am starting to see them in my oldest son as well. Hopefully I can do this for the right reasons and not just to get my W back.

@Rick: It seems that 5k (each side) is about the minimum to get a D. My lawyer said that if there are any complications, it could easily get to 8-10k which wipes me out. But then again, I didn't go with the cheapest lawyer, instead I went with a good lawyer.