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[learning2listen]

I need some insight, I stopped contacting my h after he basically stood me up last week, he said lunch on Wed, then sent a text saying he was sorry and he had fallen asleep, rescheduled for Friday, and again didnt happen then Saturday he texts again apoligizing and said he fell asleep again, now he wants to go trick or treating with me and the kids tonight, I really dont get it.. one minute it seems we dont matter and the next it seems he wants to be a part of it. he has asked again for lunch on Wednesday.. I just dont know what is going on..