One other things 2TP... I've seen it said here on the boards that a rough estimation is this whole thing takes one month for every year you're married. That certainly isn't scientific or studied... just something.
But if it's even moderately true then you're only at the very front-end of this thing... so I'd say it's way to early to give up on DBing.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD