Yeah, my W doesn't really care about money so much, but it basically comes down to either we work things out, we come to some kind of quick agreement, or this gets dragged out and we both lose everything and file for bankruptcy.
One thing that I have noticed is that my W will post some rather mean comments on Facebook at odd hours (between 2-4am). Now it doesn't matter if it's when she has the kids that night or even if she has to work in the morning. She has confessed that she doesn't sleep well and things about our situation all day at work. The thing that bothers me though, if she is having trouble sleeping because of what's happening between us, then why does she feel the need to make mean comments (obviously directed at me)?
Me36, W38 S12, S3 T20, M4 Bomb dropped 8/18/11 Moved out 8/18/11 Filed for D 10/20/11 OM Confirmed 11/5/11