ROMB, I am wondering if he asked you a question he had already determined he wasn't going to like the answer to. If you had said you weren't wearing your ring, would he have come back with telling you that you're still married and you should wear it?
I had a similar conversation with my W about a month ago.
Originally Posted By: jbnati on behalf of Mrs. jbnati
W: Why? We're getting a D anyway. It's just a matter of time. It's coming.
So I feel your pain. I think at least part of it is the 'ol self convincing.
Is it practical for y'all to separate your phone records.
It sounds like your H for some reason is feeling like he's losing control and he's very frustrated. Unfortunately you can't have it both ways, i.e. he can't expect you to do what he wants to do while he's doing whatever he wants to do.
I think each one of us has our reasons for wearing or not wearing our rings. I am proud of you for sticking to your guns.
As one of the guys in my Men's group last Thursday said to me, you are following God in this. You are taking the right direction. I am proud of you for that, too, ROMB.
I think all of this is testing, and trying to drag you into the drama in addition to the fear of losing control.
