WHG - You are right. Sometimes I have brief (very brief!) moments where I forget I have a marriage crisis on my hands. After 18 years it has just become 2nd nature to refer to "Ellen" as my wife. Thanks again for the reminder!
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife