The inviting is pursuing. Don't pursue. If she ever wants to go along, she'll invite herself, you don't need to do it.
WHG - You are right and I should know better. She just seemed genuinely interested that I couldn't help myself, and didn't think about the potential negative side effects. I will do better!
BM - Thanks for the vote of confidence. I really am trying! I do feel like this was a good weekend. But I know that I'm a long way from being out of the woods.
New week ahead. I'm hoping for more positive signs. In the meantime, I will be checking with a L to better understand the risks associated with a move-out and other related matters. Also, I'm going to go to another DivorceCare session and continue work on the house. And continue work on me and my 180's/GAL activities...
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
