Originally Posted By: kml


I believe that most people who SPEAK "Acts of Service" do so because they wish to RECEIVE "Words of Affirmation".


That makes sense.

I absolutely cover this man up with "Words of Affirmation". I have always tried to do and say all I can to let him know how wonderful, handsome, intelligent, sexy, masculine, kind, generous, etc. he is and what a fantastic father. I make sure he knows how important he is to me. I have always wanted to make sure he feels loved and appreciated. I admire and appreciate him in general and for specific things almost every day.

I really wish I was getting some love and appreciation and admiration from him, but I obviously value him for other things. The guy who was pursuing me so hotly for 3 weeks really "laid it on thick" as far as admiration goes. I was so pretty (everything about me), so sweet, such good company, etc., etc. That was nice, and he also gave me physical touch,and quality time but he just wasn't the one for me.