Learning from the pain....hard lessons

[In_Shock]

that's the great thing about this bittersweet site. Everyone here understands the same type of emotions....the gamut has been run by all of us.

It's the betrayal by the person who knew us best. It's the loss of dreams, future plans, and those abstract things more than even the physical items (like the house, etc...)

I'm just in enormous pain right now because I'm pretty sure it's over. (at least for now, right?) She told me the ILYBNILWU and that it takes two people to work on things and she doesn't want to. She said she has been 'emotionally ready to leave' for a year.

Hey, 25--- she said our common therapist has been pushing her and the OW together for about a year....that was a new one on me. WTF???????????????? Again, she says the therapist said I'm toxic....(not the R, ME) The betrayal by the therapist is almost as bad as the betrayal by W.

Believe me, I will find a new therapist asap, but hell, who can I trust???

25, did you ever go to the livestrong site and look at one of those articles on detachment? I'm made comments there. Check it out.

(((((hugs)))))) to all of us here dealing with such pain. Pray for me.... please...that I will make it. *not being dramatic but i feel as horrible/worse than the day of the bomb. Perhaps it is the reality setting in.

How do u do the first thanksgiving without W? Xmas? NY?
U live. U learn. Gotta stop rambling. Just journaling.....it does help.

and ROMB has been awesome...;)