Please listen to Accuray. He has given me great advice. When my husband walked out on me almost 4 months ago, he told me he wanted a divorce and that he hated me. I thought it was over. But now I feel like I have some kind of hope. I tried everything to get him back except leaving him alone like he wanted. So I did exactly that. It was hard, but I did it one day at a time. Before I knew it, a month went back without any contact from him. Then he started to text me about silly things regarding our D. Then last week he invited me to lunch to discuss our D. At the end of lunch he gave me this big tight hug and a kiss on the cheek. Then after we got in our separate cars, he called me. Then Saturday he called me and wanted to spend the day with me. And we did. These are baby steps for him.