too much time and distance

[workinghardguy]

No, she will likely not look. The WAS focus is on their short-term gratification. After D life falls into the category of "I'll figure that out when I get there, but it has to be better than this."

My W keeps saying "I know it will be hard" and "I'll probably fall behind a few bills here and there". Ummm... single mom, three kids, one income, and little child support (Wisconsin law doesn't provide much since her income and mine are similar and a 50/50 placement entitles her to as little as $150/mo). Yes... tough is an understatement... but she's confident that will work out. She hasn't run numbers, hasn't looked at finances, has no savings for this. But it'll work out.

Ok... good luck with that.