W is angrier after my 180's - time + consistency

[workinghardguy]

Glad you found some comfort in church. It's the first place I turned to when my sitch blew up. Partially because of the community support and partially because in order to get a GAL I need to find people that share my world perspective... and church is a great place to do that.

I wouldn't have invited her along though, just observing. Too much, too soon. She showed interest in the service so sharing what went on was good. Though even there, don't be overeager and over-the-top. Just little snippets... if she wants more, make her engage or make her wonder.

The inviting is pursuing. Don't pursue. If she ever wants to go along, she'll invite herself, you don't need to do it.