You need to get that D done soon so who owes what is spelled out.
The financial stuff will be interesting. I've been struggling for two years. I should -- thanks to unavoidable bankruptcy from her CC debts -- really turn a corner in March and April and be on solid footing.
XW though hasn't really adjusted her lifestyle that much. She shops smarter for food, but she still spends, spends, spends on clothes.
She's headed for bankruptcy too even though, with CS, she brings home twice as much as I do.
I think reality hits the WAS much later than it does us. You'll be on your way up when she's spiraling down.
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