She wants divorce / Last resort method

[MrBond]

After you had your A, did you go to C to work things out with your W?

To be honest, with you sounding as if the A was no big deal, it displays a kind of arrogance.

"She has totally been sucked into the Divorce Trap. She thinks everything will be just swell if we split our family up."

Uhhh didn't you have the long term A? Don't you think that was done to split your family up? Just because you're cool with it now, doesn't mean that she is. I don't care if your W says that she's fine with what happened before. Women don't forget things like that.