thanks rick. I'm trying to believe I'm worthy. I wish I knew how to really really detach.


I actually have other things to worry about/take care of other than my crappy R with her, but it is all-consuming at times.

I want to be like Sheldon in the Big Bang Theory---- now HE"S a detached guy.


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed