For me... what hurts more than the betrayal is the indifference. I can take anger, hatred, or other emotions directed at me. You only hate that which you love. Anger is simply a reflection of being hurt by someone you care for.

It's the indifference that gets me. The lack of any emotion towards me at times. Because only those things we don't care about are we indifference towards.

So grief is pretty strong and indifference. That we just no longer matter in their lives is what's so hard to process.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD