I'm still here part III

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DG:
Sorry for your pain. Your H needs to man up some time and take responsibility for his actions.

HOWEVER....I am in the same boat....D is going through no matter what...this is just the step the WAW needs to take. It is everything to her, and needs to be done before she can move on. BUT...she has not even contemplated what comes next...this is just a stepping stone.

It ain't over until you say it is.....you will know deep in your heart. All my friends tell me to accept what is happening and to take care of myself. They are right, of course, but I will not give up that shred of hope until I know in my heart that everything has been exhausted. Understand the WAS is living in a dreamland, and that is going to change down the road.

Be strong. Keep the faith in yourself. Hang in there.