I'm still here part III

[workinghardguy]

Sorry DG... and yes, that is one craptastic way to find out

But you're only done if you want to be. What's a D? It's simply a piece of paper that, quite frankly, is just legally codifying what most of our WASs have already done in mind, body, and spirit.

You can choose to keep DBing and working, or not. There is no right answer here and no one here will judge you one way or the other. I think you can say you've done everything you can and it's time to move on. At the same time, if you say you're going to keep DBing and working for some period of time... that's a good answer too.

I think the WAS thinks the D is the final arbiter. Like, "but we got divorced... why are you still doing things to better yourself and change how I feel?" Well, because I want to and you, WAS, don't get to tell me what to do. You really didn't get to before, but now that you've done the D thing, you really really don't get to. So deal with it.