W is angrier after my 180's - time + consistency

[BklynMom]

I am new to this and in general am against moving out for the usual reasons kids etc. However I do think physical seperation can speed up your wifes crisis. I do think it makes the realities of her wants real. She will need to face the consquences which there are many financial & in dealing with the kids. I do think you also score some points that you are listening and hearing her. I just reread Bustaromas posts and R only happened after the wife truly believed it was over. I really believe in most cases the WAS has to think you are not trying to win them back. Since your kids will be with your W most of the time you will have the advantage of being able to GAL like crazy and your WAS will have it harder at home being a single mom. its a tough call. good luck