2The this is hard stuff isn't? Looking at ourselves so deeply in such a short time can be painful. I don't know what happened to the man my W fell in love with? I was very different than. Did not take things so seriously even when I was so broke that I did not have enough cash to eat. I made do with what I had and had a blast. My problem is that I became dependent on my W, financially. She has always made more money than I. Never bothered me. But since my stich I worry about how I will live. Even though I work and have the choice of making more. I just have to remember that. That I have options and recourses. Easy to forget our strentghs after being with someone for so long. Do you remember who that man she fell in love with looks like? Hang in there


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden