Butorama,
Just catching up on your sitch, thanks very much for taking the time to put down your experiences. As JS, JB and everyone else above has stated, it really is a shot in the arm for those of us who are caught up in the limbo. Really needed this today! Thanks!!

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!