OT, exBF doesn't have a L so a laughing L isn't entirely threatening to me. I might say "Maybe we can get a night nurse that week to help with the sleeping issue." I actually don't think that's entirely unreasonable *in our context* - not in anyone else's reality, but ours -

He doesn't want her to cry it out. Neither of us have wanted that.

She's our daughter (as everyone here keeps reminding me OUR not MY) and so I think it's fair to assume when she's having issues that it's both our responsibility to deal ...