Lila... Two things about worry... First, it rarely turns out as bad as we thunkmit will. Could he tie you up in court? Sure. Will he? Think of the time, money, and effort ittakes to do that. What in him makes you think he has that kind of initiative? From what you've written I don't see this guy with tons of drive and endless money for legal battles.

Second, worrying is a waste. It accomplishes nothing while allowing us to feel we're doing something. Either releasing the angst or taking action steps to address the angst are usually more productive.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD